Saturday, 29 September 2018

Mind Your Own Business

Quite often at our house we have to remind our children to mind their own business.  Usually, it’s William needing the reminder.  Sometimes it happens that we have to instruct Alice on the importance of certain life skills like picking up after yourself, not dawdling, or focusing when she’s trying to do the schoolwork she’s had to bring home because she couldn’t finish it at school for various unknown reasons.  In our calmest demeanour Dana and/or I will gently explain to Alice the importance of getting things done so she can do the things she likes.  This is not any easy task especially when it tends to occur ten minutes before the bus arrives and she’s just remembering she’s got schoolwork. 
In these moments of high quality family time William will often pipe in with what he believes is helpful advice on why one should get one’s work done, a skill which he himself has certainly mastered. This sends Alice to the moon and into what I call Edith Bunker mode.  That’s a high-pitched, shrill form of wining that makes you flinch so hard you squeeze the blood right out of your brain.  Of course, in our calmest of voices we have to say “William, that’s not helpful.  Mind you own business.”  In these moments I just have to sing a little Hank.  In fact, just thinking about it makes me want to sing some Hank, so bear with me while I sing some Hank.
(Please take a little time to listen to Hank William’s Mind Your Own Business.)
In our passage from Mark, Jesus is having a huge “mind your own business” moment with the Twelve Disciples who are again acting like children.  If you remember last week, they were wanting to be rock stars like Jesus and kicked off their ‘Let’s act like children” tour by arguing about which of them was the greatest.  Jesus made a teaching moment out of the argument telling them the greatest would have to be the least of all and servant of all.  Then he nabbed a nearby child and brought him into their midst and hugged the child and told them basically, “if you want to know me and my God, then you need to learn how to show hospitality and love to children.”
Today we pick up on more of that conversation and it helps if we remember that Jesus is still holding that child while the adults are still “acting like children”.  It seems the Twelve didn’t get what Jesus had just taught them about humility and so they moved on from “whose the greatest” to jealousy of those outside the clique.  The Twelve had seen a man casting out demons in Jesus’ name (which was something they had had a little trouble doing a few days before) and they tried to stop him simply because he was not one of them. 
Jesus, still holding the child, instructs them that anyone enabled with power to minister in his name, though not part of their little group, is still a part of his ministry and should not be spoken against or stopped.  Likewise, there will be those outside the fold who treat the Twelve kindly and will be blessed for it.  Cliquishness or should I say denominationalism aside, we are all in Jesus’ Kingdom of God bearing ministry together and should be “for” rather than “against” those outside our way of doing the things Jesus has sent us to do.
The Twelve were being territorial, cliquish, and were thinking that Jesus could only entrust his ministry to them because they were the ones who were with him all the time.  They couldn’t accept that there were other cowboys in the rodeo who were just as capable as them if not more.  So Jesus, still holding the child, more or less tells them to mind their own business in a very stern way. 
With the child in his arms Jesus tells them that if they, the Twelve not those outsiders, if they do something that causes one of the little ones who believe in him to walk away from him, then it would be better for them if they had a great burden chained to them and were drowned in the sea.  Jesus’ imagery is powerful here.  The guilt and shame of causing someone else to turn away from Jesus is like having a heavy millstone chained to you while drowning. 
To keep from doing that, Jesus tells the Twelve to mind their own business, to mind their own conduct.  Our translation makes it sound like we will go to Hell if we falter in our conduct and it causes another person weaker in faith to stop following Jesus.  But, Jesus didn’t say Hell.  Well-meaning but unthinking translators use Hell here because that’s what’s been done since the Middle Ages with the unfortunate result of leading us to talk about eternal punishment Dante-style rather than actually dealing with what Jesus is saying. 
The word Jesus uses is Gehenna.  Gehenna was the name of the garbage dump outside of Jerusalem that was always on fire and there was an endless supply of maggots and other worms eating on decaying stuff.  Gehenna was located just outside the city wall on the southwest in the Valley of Hinnom which was the place where wicked kings in ancient Judah sacrificed their own children to the Canaanite god Molech as a means to gain absolute power. 
Jesus, while still embracing that child and after teaching his disciples that welcoming children into their lives and loving them would teach them who God is, told the Twelve, his closest followers, that for them to fall away from him and to fall away from him in such a way as to cause other little ones to fall away will cause them to become a shameful waste, waste of the sort that is thrown on the ever-burning garbage heap of the city of Jerusalem that covers the spot where wicked kings sacrificed their children to the false gods of evil power.  Their choice is showing humility, hospitality, and love and coming to know God’s nature on the one hand or being prideful, jealous, and a shameful waste on the other.
Jesus finishes by saying his followers must be like salt.  Jesus said everyone would be salted with fire, the refining fire of staying faithful to him in the midst of temptations and trials of persecution.  Yet, it is possible to lose the saltiness.  The way to avoid that is to strive for peace among ourselves.
Today we celebrate the Lord’s Supper.  We are week early for World Communion Sunday, but no matter.  Today we gather around the Table of our Lord confessing the sin of denominational jealousy in a global church that is fiercely divided over many things – moral issues, traditions, grabs at power, theological differences, etc.  A hard to accept fact for us is that our disunity, evident in our Denominationalism, has literally caused young people to turn away from Jesus.  We who judge the ways and beliefs of other Denominations rather than seek peace and unity among ourselves must ask if the reason the North American church is largely devoid of children is that we have sacrificed them on the altar of false power – societal power, even political power.  Rather than actually loving young people and trying to teach them God’s love and the actual ways of Jesus, we’ve tried to control them and make them just like us in our hypocrisies of pride and jealousy.  Let us humbly gather to this Table and pray for unity in the Church.  Amen.