Saturday, 15 February 2020

Honesty? Honestly?!

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We have a problem with honesty these days.  I remember a story when I was a kid, which in itself was a lie, that they taught us down in the States to try to instil in us that honesty was an American virtue.  I’m sure you folks heard it up here.  It was about a young George Washington, the first PROTUS, owning up to chopping down his father’s cherry tree.  Let’s see, how did it go.  Little George got an axe and gave that tree forty whacks.  When his father discovered the butchered tree, he asked George who cut it down.  And let me see how’d that story end. George replies, “I did nothing wrong.  It was a perfect conversation with the tree.  Just read the transcript I gave you.”  No?  How about, “I cannot tell a lie, I did not have a chopping relationship with that tree.”  No?  Maybe it was, “I am not a chopper.”  No? Hmmm.  Hold on.  “I cannot say. I was out of the loop.”  No?  Oh, now I remember.  He bullied his cronies and wouldn’t let the ones who saw him do it talk to his father.  No? Well, who would have thought he said, “I cannot tell a lie.  I cut it down.”  Honesty?  Honestly!”
Well, honesty is very important.  That George Washington story was taught to me as a child down in the States to instil in me what sort of people Americans are.  We are honest people; so honest that our consciences simply will not allow us to tell a lie.  But times have obviously changed.  Truth no longer seems to matter.  If I still lived in the States and was raising my children there I would be livid that my government by example was teaching my children that there are no consequences to lying, that the truth does not have to be told particularly the higher up you get on the power, wealth, and status ladder.  But, government lies matter.  They come at a cost – the corrosion of national community.
Well, believe it or not things today are not all that different than they were in Jesus’ time with respect to telling the truth.  Back then lying was commonplace.  People were not expected to tell the truth.  In fact the only time that it was necessary to tell the truth was when someone higher up the social ladder required a lesser to be honest for some official reason.  Not unlike today, back then if you were a person of position or status you had the power to decide to whom you would tell the truth.  You were entitled to tell no one the truth.  It had to have been a very difficult time in which to live.  You could not count on anyone really being honest.  So, people tried to create a false sense of honesty by swearing oaths when they wanted someone else to know they were most likely telling the truth.  They would say, “I swear by Heaven.”  “I swear on my life.”  “I swear on my honour.”   Taking an oath was necessary to guarantee that a person was being honest.
At the heart of Jesus’ teaching here on oath taking is, I think, his fundamental dislike for the way people could so easily lie.  In matters of faith there was a law in the Old Testament that Hebrews observed about keeping the vows they made to the Lord.  If you say you are going to do something for the Lord, then do it.  But in our passage today, Jesus indicates that he expects his followers not only to keep their word when it comes to the activities of their faith but we are to go further and be honest in every matter. There is an underlying and continuous message running through the Sermon on the Mount that Jesus’ expects his followers to be of higher moral character than just simply being good folk who stay out of trouble or worse, who are religious legalists.  His disciples should be of such high moral character that they should not have to swear an oath to guarantee to others that they are telling the truth.  Jesus’ disciples are to be known for their honesty, honestly!
Honest is not an easy thing to be.  We lie in so many ways.  There are times when telling a little lie seems to be almost necessary to keep from hurting someone’s feelings.  Those types of lies are what we call white lies because supposedly no one gets hurt.  Then there are those people whom we would call pathological liars.  They simply cannot tell the truth about anything and make up story after story to make themselves appear grand.  And then there are the flat out lies that we tell.  We simply decide for whatever reason not to tell the truth when asked.  Usually it’s because we don’t want to take the time to explain things.  Here lately it seems that it is acceptable to tell lies about other people, particularly your enemies or people you think are undesirable to have in your great community, in order to motivate other people to join your self-destructive circle of hate.
There is another type of lying that we do which we simply call living a lie, living a life that at the core is oriented towards self.  We will do anything to make ourselves feel like we are somebody more than who we are.  Instead of being honest and accepting that we need the care and support of other people we try to appear strong and self-sufficient.  We build up walls of power and intimidation and compete with others.  Whenever there is a mountain of debt, be it personal or national, there is a lie being lived.
Being honest is difficult.  We lie as a way to protect and preserve our self-image.  But Jesus shows us a better way.  This morning we will be partaking of the Lord’s Supper.  We eat the bread and drink the juice remembering how Jesus gave his life for us simply because he honestly loves us.  That’s the Truth.  Jesus shows us the truth about ourselves.  That we crucified the Son of God who came to heal us is the truest word of truth about who and how we humans are that was ever spoken. 
This meal is an invitation to live the honest life.  It is the invitation to live our lives fundamentally oriented to doing what God in his great love for us expects of us which is to love God with all our heart, soul, strength and mind and to love our neighbours as we love ourselves; by love we keep Jesus great commandment for us to love as he loved us by giving his life for us.  In so doing we will come face to face with the reality of God’s love for everybody.  True, we will feel great discomfort as we discover the self-destructive and community-destroying lies we believe about ourselves and others; but that Truth will set us free.  We are to live our lives not to serve ourselves but in service of others because we care about more than looking out for number one.  As we come to the table let us remember that being honest begins with saying yes, I will keep my word to follow Jesus faithfully.  Yes, I will allow myself to be weak and broken so that I and others might experience God’s love and be healed.  Indeed, the one honest thing in this world that we can count on to be true is how much God loves us.  Come.  Amen.